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I Don’t Miss My Ex—I Miss Who I Was with Her

“Nostalgia is a file that removes the rough edges from the good old days.” ~Doug Larson I don’t miss Zinia. I miss the Zinia I [...]

The Truth About Time That Most of Us Avoid Facing

“The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams.” ~Oprah Winfrey My father died at forty-nine. I was young when [...]

How Better Communication Changed My Relationships and My Life

“When we avoid difficult conversations, we trade short-term discomfort for long-term dysfunction.” ~Peter Bromberg Have you ever looked around at other people’s lives and wondered, [...]

What Helped Me When My Life Felt Uncertain and Unstable

“Sticking with uncertainty is how we learn to relax in the midst of chaos, how we learn to be cool when the ground beneath us [...]

What Letting My Dad Go Taught Me About Love

“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” ~Hermann Hesse My dad was intubated, so he couldn’t say [...]

From Blending in to Belonging: My Journey Out of Self-Consciousness

“True belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world. Our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level [...]

Embracing Slow Growth: The Big Turning Point That Never Came

“It gets easier. Every day it gets a little easier. But you gotta do it every day, that’s the hard part.” ~ BoJack Horseman If [...]

The Simple “Analog Basket” That Helps Me Unplug

“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” ~Anne Lamott You know that familiar routine: an exhausting day [...]

How I Broke My Painful Relationship Patterns for Good

“Sometimes we fall for the same mistakes because we haven’t learned to love ourselves fully.” ~Unknown As long as I can remember, my relationships followed [...]

On Staying Light in a World That Feels Bleak

“Love life more than the meaning of it? Yes, certainly.” ~Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov When I was a child, there was a special moment during [...]